Thursday, October 6, 2011

Day 6 - Summer Days

We have had a couple of rainy cold days and I am longing for the sun to come back out!! I will try to just relive the warmth through my pictures : )

One of our favorite things to do has always been to swim. Both of my children have been water babies since they were tiny little things. This year Ella did have some issues with the water. In the past she has been my fearless (as in NO safety awareness, scare the crap out of me) child. She would willingly put her entire head under water, and would purposely try to drown herself only for me to pull her up gasping for air and then she'd do it all over again. This year not so much. I really don't know what changed. Ella started showing more sensory type issues around last spring, it was all very strange behavior for her. She would spend the first hour and a half or so at the pool fearful, clinging onto an adult, and it was so not like her. I did wish for some safety awareness but not to that extreme!! By the end of the open swim session she would start jumping off the wall into some one's arms. By the end of the swimming season she started letting go and swimming with her puddle jumper (floaties) on. We had fun none the less though !!!


These first couple of pics are at a friends house! Here is Ella and Riley being goofballs!

Hunter at the top of the slide



We spent a lot of time at the public pools. At $1 a person and kids free on the weekends it is the perfect cheap entertainment, especially when your house doesn't have A/C!


Xochitl and Ella preschool buddies!

Juan, Hunter and Isali



My poor son.....Hunter has the worst skin. He has always been my rashy/ eczema boy but this summer was especially bad with burning. This kid LIVES to be outside, and I can't not let him play outside. I tried so many sunscreens I lost count. I put 100SPF on both kids roughly every hour or so, Ella stays so white she is almost translucent and Hunter burns to a crisp particularly under his eyes. I also make him wear hats, not sure what else to do with him. I'm afraid he is going to have hard leathery skin by the time he is 10!






Juan, Hunter, Xochitl, Isali and Ella - these guys had lots of fun swimming together this summer!



We decided not to do swimming lessons with either of the kids this summer because well, they are time consuming. They are 4 days a week and at times that didn't really work for us. I think it is hilarious that the first summer in 3 or 4 years that Hunter hasn't had lessons he learns how to swim : ) Hunter had a BLAST swimming this year, especially jumping off of the diving board at the public pool!!









I miss summer : (

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

Day 5 - Princess Ballet

I tried getting Ella into dance about this time last year. The first class went great, the second not so good, and the third was the last. Ella has been doing so good behavior wise lately and the kid LOVES to dance so I thought we'd give it a second chance. After all it has been over a year. My mom told me about a studio she read about in the paper so I looked it up. They had a class called Princess Ballet and it is for 3 year olds. I wrote the owner of the studio and told them about Ella, that she is 5, has Ds, etc. They said she was welcome to come and try it out. I decided to try out the 3 year old class because lets face it, even though Ella does really well, physically she is at about a 3 year old level. Plus I was thinking that she would be the tallest one and perhaps the leader in the class. Well, yesterday was the first day of class and it wasn't a total disaster : ) Ella for some reason did not want to separate from me, which is NEVER the case, so I had to go sit in on the class which to her gave her permission to leave whatever she was doing and run to me and then run back over and over again. Otherwise she did pretty good, she kept up physically with the other girls. She was definitely not the tallest, as in one out of the 6 little girls was the same size as Ella, everyone else was taller. Oh well. I chatted with the teacher a bit after and she asked great questions about auditory/sensory stuff and how Ella does with that (she said she has a child with Autism so she knows how that stuff can effect kids,) and that she would be glad to have Ella in the class. So, for this month at least Ella is a Princess Ballerina!!





Tuesday, October 4, 2011

Day 4 - Medical Issue

I took Ella in for her 5 year well child check up the second week of September. It was a fairly regular appointment, we were surprised to see that Ella had grown 3 inches in 3 months topping out at 39.5 inches and weighs 40lbs. We talked about her potty training issues and that Ella had not been sleeping so good, as in really restless. So, we left the doctors office with a couple of referrals and a script to go get her yearly blood work done. (For those of you who don't know it is recommended for children with Down syndrome to have blood work done each year including a CBC and thyroid levels checked.) We headed straight for the lab and got the blood draw out of the way, and as usual Ella HATED it. I pretty much put it out of my mind and carried on about our business.

Well 4 days later Ella's pediatrician called, the actual doctor herself and not the nurse which is unusual. She said she got Ella's blood test results back and that the thyroid levels were out of whack. Um okay. (It should be noted that when Ella was one she did have a blood test done and her thyroid came back as hypothyroid, but by the time we got the referral and into the endocrinologist 3 months later and they retested she was back to normal and it's been normal ever since.) The doctor said she is testing in the HYPERthyroid levels. What? I have only ever heard of kids with Ds being hypothyroid so it seemed weird to me. She said she was going to call and talk to the pediatric endocrinologist but that he would probably just want her levels rechecked in 3 months or so and if they came back off again then he would see her. She said she'd call in the next couple of days and let me know what he says. So, I get off the phone with her and am really not too worried, no big deal, I'm sure everything will be fine. Then the phone rings again, 5 minutes later. It's the doctor again. She says "the doctor wants to see her on Wednesday," it was Monday. I said "well that's kind of freaking me out," she said "me too, it usually takes a long time to get in there." Great. She tells me to call his office and tell the front staff that the doctor wants to see her on Wednesday. I call and they tell me that that doctor doesn't work on Wednesdays. I tell them my doctor just got off the phone with him and that's what he said. So they go and talk to the doctor and sure enough he wants to see her Wed.

Wednesday rolls around and I am quite nervous. We head down to the children's hospital. The doctor comes in in jeans and a t-shirt (guess it really was his day off.) He is super nice, asks me tons of questions and then examines Ella. After he sits down with me and draws pictures (mean while Ella is running around his office like a crazy person and I'm trying really hard to pay attention) of the thyroid and explains what all it does. He tells me that he really thinks that she has an autoimmune issue called Hashimoto's. That in it's very early stages it will spike into the hyperthyroid levels and then drop down into hypothyroid. He said once it goes down into hypothyroid it is much easier to manage. He also told me about another autoimmune disorder called Graves Disease and said that it is much rarer in small kids and much harder to treat and he didn't think she had it because she didn't have a lot of the symptoms. He prescribed us an Anti-thyroid and explained all the bad side effects it can have, such as liver death and lowering your white blood count thus making you more susceptible to infection, but that she would probably only have to be on that for 4 to 6 weeks because with Hashimoto's the levels will drop and then we treat for the opposite. But we had to go get Ella's blood drawn again this time to check baseline liver enzymes (just in case) and to test her TSI which is another thyroid level. He told me that he expected her TSI to be normal but they check it just in case because that is how they diagnose Graves Disease.

We leave that appointment with a treatment plan that included the anti-thyroid meds for now, blood work every 2 weeks and then come back in 5 weeks. Well, the next Monday rolls around
and the doctor's office calls and says her TSI level is 400 something..I ask what normal is, they say between 1-130something. Shit. I say so does that mean she has Graves? The nurse says well I'm not the doctor, but yes. Shit.

I of course go into a Google frenzy. So here is what I know so far. Only 20-30% of people with Graves respond to the medication, the medicine is not without it's risks but is the best option. The other treatment options are Iodine Radiation and surgery to completely remove the thyroid. No thanks. There are a lot of health complications if you don't treat so that's not really an option. Some of the side effects that we are possible seeing now are sleep issues (they have gone from restlessness to sleeplessness) and fidgeting, excessive thirst, and quick growth. But there are a lot of symptoms that we aren't seeing at all though I think having Ds throws a big curve ball as to what those effects would look like in Ella (that's for another post...) I really think that this was caught right as it was kicking off. The doctor did say though that to have the levels that she did she had to have been this way for at least 5 weeks.

The medicine that Ella is on only comes in tablet form because as the pharmacist said "kids don't usually have to take this medicine." Thanks. Mine DOES. So, I have to crush it up and mix it with something. This has been a real challenge. My child who I've always been convinced does not have taste buds definitely tastes this. It is really really bitter. Currently we are giving her a spoonful of Hershey's chocolate syrup and it's working okay, though when I open her door and let her out in the morning I am greeted with " I HATE it medicine!!!" and she runs and hides. Poor thing. The really good news is that we had her blood retested last week and they came back good, as in moving in the right direction, which means that her body is responding to the medication for the time being, and that is great!!! We go back to the doctor on the 18th, poor guy isn't going to know what hit him after all the questions I plan to dump on him!

SO, the moral of this story is if you have a child with Down syndrome make sure you do the yearly blood work. You never know what is going on inside those little bodies!!!


Here is a picture of my sweet babies, taken on Ella's b-day.

Monday, October 3, 2011

Day 3 - End of T-ball

So after our experience with soccer I was a bit hesitant to try t-ball when the time came (I had been excited about t-ball all winter long but as the time neared not so much.) I was worried she would act like she did in soccer and that she wouldn't actually play t-ball. But, much to my surprise she took to t-ball right away and loved it. This team was all "typical" girls ages 5 and 6, obviously Ella has Ds and was only 4. She was definitely the smallest, she could barely even pick up the softball with one hand, but she was a part of the team. The girls all loved her, and were kind of in her face all of the time : ) I think part of the reason for success on this team was that Ella is a huge copier, she will copy kids good or bad. So, if ALL of the other little girls were doing something Ella would then go right over and do it too. Is this an example of why inclusion is so important to me, you bet!!!! Now, I'm not saying that the whole season was perfect, not at all. Ella definitely had her moments. She did not like playing out in the field, unless she was playing 1st base or pitcher (which happened to be the ONLY two positions that got any play.) Luckily I was allowed on the field so I spent a lot of time making her stay in her spot while she was bored, which I must say she was not the only girl who was bored out of their minds out there and having trouble staying in their spots. But come time to hit the ball and run the bases Ella was perhaps the most enthusiastic player, it helped that everyone cheered for her often including the opposing team, and if you know Ella you know she loves attention!! So overall I'd say t-ball was a huge success and we can't wait to play again next spring!


Where ever Ella would stop and wait for her turn to bat, girls would just surround her, it was quite cute.

Standing on 2nd base


Daddy helping her get in position








Team cheer









The team


Funny faces!

Waiting to get her medal



I know it's dark, but the look on her face is so cute!

Ella and her best buddies Xochitl and Isali

She loved her little medal

The team all headed to DQ for their little team party after the game!

Sunday, October 2, 2011

Day 2 - Top Soccer


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This past spring Ella played Top Soccer which is for people with disabilities. Each person has a "buddy" and Ella's buddy was a really sweet 8th grader named Josie. This experience was interesting for me, and by interesting I mean frustrating. It was held in a large indoor soccer arena, the older children/young adults played on one end and the younger ones played on the other end. There was A LOT going on, it was very busy and a bit loud, and there were a lot of people with each player having a buddy (some having 2 buddies) and all the coaches etc. I think Ella was just too overstimulated and there was not a whole lot of soccer being played by her. She spent her time running around the arena (with her buddy in chase), laying down in the soccer net, climbing in rubbermaid containers....you get the idea. I spent my time watching (we weren't allowed in there) and getting angry. I mean seriously kid can't you just do what you are supposed to? My mother liked to keep pointing out that Ella wasn't the only one doing those things, but to me it felt like it. I don't know why I let things like that get to me. I guess because I know that Ella really is a bright girl and she really can be well behaved and so it makes me crazy when she gets all well...crazy. I know that she gets overstimulated and I know that that means that she CAN'T function as she normally does. I really do know that. But it still just drives me nuts, I'm working on it : )



Anyhow, Ella seemed to enjoy it, especially the last day which ended in a pizza party, cookies and a trophy!!!


Enjoying her cookie

Ella and Riley




If these two ever do end up getting married we will have so many good photos to put up at their wedding to show how early they loved each other. LOL!


Ella and her sweet buddy Josie

Ella running through the line to get her trophy giving high fives!

Now she decides to play hard to get : )
Josie made Ella this cute little crown!!

Saturday, October 1, 2011

It's that time of the year.....


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It's October and you know what that means??? It's Down syndrome awareness month!! With that comes the 31 for 21 annual challenge, so that means I will be posting everyday for the entire month (at least that's what is supposed to happen!) I have SOOOO much to post, mostly pictures, and I am hoping to get caught up. These will be in no particular order!

I figured I'd start off with the first day of school. The kids started school on Wednesday, September 7th and amazingly it was 91 degrees that day! Hunter is in 2nd grade this year, which just does not seem possible. 1st grade was rough for him, he got in trouble a lot for talking (and he really is a really good kid), on his report cards he would get 4's for academics (the highest you can get) and 1's (the lowest) for effort, he was BORED. So far this year is going really well. I spoke to his teacher at curriculum night this past week and she said she LOVES Hunter and that he is so smart and he has spunk and that she loves a boy with spunk! Seems to be a great fit!

Ella is in her 3rd year of preschool, integrated with "typical" kids. Looking back I don't see that I ever updated this as far as her schooling goes but we fought to have Ella stay in preschool this year. Ella turned 5 on August 30th and the program that she is integrated into says that no child can be 5 before September 1st, so they wanted to send her to Kindergarten. I objected to that for oh so many reasons and it all seemed so obvious to me that she should stay in preschool. Long story short they made a special exception and she was able to stay at her school but would not be able to keep the teachers that we had had for the prior 2 years that were SO good with Ella. I was a bit nervous going into this year, we really really loved her prior teachers and I was so afraid that the new ones might not be a good fit, may not understand what Ella says etc etc. But I am so very happy and relieved to say that Ella is doing fantastic this year. She has transitioned into this class with no problems. Her teachers reported the first week that Ella was a leader in class, she is paying attention, participating, having conversations with her peers (in which they are understanding her) and that she is "so good!" Phew! I knew before hand that I made the right choice to keep her in pre-k but this really made me confident in that decision!!

Here are my babies on their 1st day!



My excited and confident pre-schooler






Poor Hunter....I didn't realize it at the time but I can see it now his little eyes are swollen. He has been having allergy issues but perhaps even worse the skin under his eyes has stayed consistently burnt all summer.




The big 2nd grader!









When I was uploading this year's first day of school pics I noticed that two of the shots of Ella walking into school look a lot like ones I took on her first day 2 years ago! So here is a little comparison : )





2 years ago - her first day of public preschool

This year....she grew some legs!
2 years ago
This year
In her classroom

Tuesday, August 30, 2011

Ella is 5 today!

Today my sweet baby is 5. It is so hard to believe. I'm a bit sad, 5 seems so old. But, when I look at all that she has accomplished I am so proud of her first 5 years and can't wait to see what this next year brings! Happy birthday to my Amazing Ella Grace!!!

Ella at 1 day old

1st Birthday


2nd Birthday


3rd Birthday



4th Birthday



I am 5 today!!!!

She is looking a little rough today....she had a little fall and her face and the road collided : )