I think that Ella speaks pretty well. I understand probably 99% of what she says and even if I don't understand a word she has ways of getting me to understand. However some things are hard for her to express. I don't know what it is. Something about trying to remember something, formulate the thought into sentences and get them out of her mouth??? I just don't know. For example EVERY SINGLE DAY after school I ask her how was your day? And EVERY SINGLE DAY I get "I play recess. Monkeybars." The end. Now I know kids do that, Hunter would talk about recess and lunch and PE in Kindergarten but then he would expand. It's just one of those little things that gets to me.
So back to today. We get home and I check her backpack, no note. I check my email, nothing. So I call the special ed teachers desk, no answer. I call the gen ed teacher's desk, no answer. At this point I am on a mission to find out what happened. I figured that perhaps she got in trouble, (it's happened one other time this school year and they kept her in from recess,) but she doesn't ever get this upset about getting in trouble. I called the main line for Ella's school and told the secretary that Ella was really upset about something that happened at school today and I can't understand what she is talking about. Luckily Ella's gen ed teacher was standing right there.
Apparently Miss Ella had a really rough day. It started with not sitting still and paying attention at circle, then taking her shoes off to show everyone her painted toe nails and refusing to put her shoes back on. Then she refused to leave circle time and go to her table and when she finally did go to the table she went under it and refused to get out. The list goes on, a lot of refusal and not focusing. So, when it came time for recess they had her stay in and work on something she hadn't done as well as practice getting up from circle time and go to her table. BUT she did get snack with the rest of her class : ) I thanked her teacher, they really are just so wonderful with Ella, and got off the phone and had a little chat with Ella.
I asked her what happened at circle time, she told me "I take off my shoes and show my friends my pretty nails." What happened when it was time to go to your seat, "I go under table." Etc. And this is what makes me sad. Not that she had a rough day (although it leaves me wondering because she had an awesome morning and has been great since we had our talk a bad day with her could mean poor sleep or that she is getting sick, or maybe she just didn't feel like doing anything who knows) but that she was completely unable to tell me what had happened until I had the actual information and could ask the right questions. What if someone had been mean to her on the playground and a teacher wasn't there to witness it. Would I ever know why she was upset? Does this get better with age as she communicates better and better? I sure hope so.
There aren't a whole lot of things that make me sad when it comes to Ella anymore (unless health related in which I think somethings are just so unfair!) But seriously this kid makes me proud on a daily basis, she overcomes so much just to do everyday things that we take for granted. She makes me laugh, A LOT, every single day. And most of all she brings me so much joy. But every once in a great while some thing happens that takes the wind out of my sails and today was just one of those days.
On a positive note we picked up Ella's new glasses today and they seem to fit great!!!! Her other ones she had had for 2 1/2 years and were definitely getting too small!! She is a hard girl to fit with her tiny facial features and different facial structure. So far so good, they are staying up and of course she looks cute as can be in them!!!! She really is so tolerant when it comes to things like that, I hate when I get new glasses or contacts, but not Ella she really is a trooper!!!